J

J is a writer fascinated by sex, sex work and desire. Their work is dedicated to celebrating marginalised histories and the joys of sexual pleasure, as well as the complex web of respectability and societal norms which govern our sexual desires. Their work is sometimes confessional, sometimes academic, but almost always horny.

June 11, 2025
two queer people in rope bondage, one seated in a wheelchair, embracing tenderly.
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On Kink, Disability and Queerness

J explores how disability and identity intersect in their navigation of (chronic) pain and pleasure, and non-normative ways of being, living, loving and fucking.