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Getting to Know You: Top, Bottom, Switch or Self-Tie? How do you identify in rope, are you predominantly a top, a bottom or do you happily switch. Or are you one of those amazingly talent people who does all at once by self tying? Community Agreements:1. Celebrate and embrace the diversity of thought, practice, and opinion. There are many ways to do and practice rope. The Community Discord is a way for us all to engage and interact across differences. While rope connects us all, we are still unique individually.2. Navigate disagreement through discourse. Treat others with respect, even if you disagree. Discord is primarily a text interaction platform, please be mindful that miscommunications can happen.3. Respect each community members’ identities and honor their boundaries/requests about how they wish to be treated. Treat others how they wish to be treated - this includes using their correct pronouns, name, and any other identifying factors that feel important to them. If you make a mistake, take accountability for your actions and try to repair any harm caused. 4. Help create safer spaces for learning and growth through mutual accountability and co-created community accountability. Accountability is mutually co-created. This space is meant to build community and hold each other in that process - sometimes that means making mistakes. Our commitment to accountability begins with a willingness to own and accept that we are all capable of causing harm. Let’s intentionally build a space where making mistakes and making things right is a part of how we operate.5. Bring a growth mindset and be mindful of your learning zones. Check-in with yourself and where your learning zones are. Be mindful when you are in the panic zone and ask for help if you need it. 6. Actively receive in conversation before responding. Receive information down to the last word before taking the time to communicate your thoughts. 7. Make space, take space. Reflect on when you’re able to take up more space in the discord/threads/conversations and reflect on if you need to be creating more space for others. Reflect on if you aren’t participating as much or taking up space, why that might be. Try to find the courage to share your thoughts and take up space, you belong here! 8. Be mindful of the impact of your actions, not just the intentions behind them. Just because we didn’t intend to hurt or harm someone doesn’t change that they are hurt/harmed. 9. NSFW Content. We unfortunately cannot have explicit NSFW content on the community at this time. As an education platform in Shibari we do recognise some content is concerning the practice of shibari but we cannot host explicit material. We do not want to moderate heavily in this space so please be mindful when sharing photographs. 10. This is all challenge by choice. It’s a choice of action to be here and to be participating in this space. Please participate at whatever capacity feels accessible and most authentic for you

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Live Host
Live Host
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April 09

Intimacy & Improvisation: Join Switchmeister and Lil today at 3pm Eastern (19:00 UTC) for their latest Shibari Study stream. In this class, the pair explore intimacy in shibari through the lens of "everyone is different during different tying sessions". They also introduce improvisation as their tool for getting out of their own heads and actively engaging with the person in ropes.

Watch here: https://shibaristudy.com/programs/intimacy-improvisation-stream
fuoco
fuoco
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April 09

Hey all! 

We're putting together a research pool — a small group we'll tap for feedback as we improve the platform. Sessions are short, and we'll only reach out when it's a good fit for you. If you’re interested in being part of the group of folks we tap when we need feedback, take 30 seconds and fill out the form below :) 


https://forms.gle/dKzW1DVwv3NG2UHr7
Mobights
Mobights
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April 08

Hey Everyone,

now that the easter egg hunt is closed, you might not have noticed that we also dropped some new harness guides recently. Im really loving how this is coming together and adding a new dimension to the website and more and more are in the works.


Whats your favourite guide so far?

and what harnesses would you love to see a guide created?
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Predicaments are ties that create choice…typically a choice between one discomfort or another. The name of the game is time. Riggers: sit back and enjoy the view as your partner explores, sinks into discomfort, and finally starts to sweat. Bottoms: the choice is yours when to tap out. Predicaments ask you to calm your mind, steady your breath, and suffer a little…or a lot. If you’re new to predicaments, these handful of videos will give you some easy exploration opportunities before ramping up to more intense positions. We’ve included a lot of content for folks newer to using suspension lines for play as well as our video on hand checks, as we’ll be working with box tie positions here. Make sure to give that content a refresh if you need it.
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Nexus
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4th self tie: Rhombus Rope/Tortoise shell tie. I used 2 jute ropes that were 25 feet/8.3 yards = 7.6 meters long
Petra
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April 03

Happy Easter to all who celebrate it
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Nexus
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April 02
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4th self tie: Rhombus Rope/Tortoise shell tie. I used 2 jute ropes that were 

25 feet/8.3 yards = 7.6 meters long
Coletivo
Coletivo
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April 01

A question came to my mind during my studies: are Semenawa and Predicament the same thing? In my research i haven't seen anybody precisely relate or differentiate those terms from each other. What do you think about it?
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Leonardo
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April 01
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Looking at you upside down
Annie
Annie
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April 01

Happy April 1st and happy new blog post day! I know I say I'm extra excited about just about everything we post, but I'm extra, extra excited about this one (especially as someone with an occasionally love-hate relationship with box ties/TKs myself). Whether box ties are your go-to or they're expressly on your "do not tie me in one ever" list, this article by our very own fuoco may just get you thinking about them a little differently... Take a read and feel free to share your own box tie hot takes with us here in the comments!

https://shibaristudy.com/blog/post/to-box-tie-or-not-to-box-tie-the-big-debate
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