This is awesome...I've done something similar and I got so many more ideas watching this. Question...can the bottom veto anything at any time? I'm at the point of you, Lief, are taking down the waist rope and if Icky really was a no to that, would they have to wait til it was there turn or could they say no right then and there? For me, I'd want my bottom to be able to the power to say no to what I want if it is too much for them. Is this how you two  do it too? 

Oh I love this...I never thought to put the rope through the ankle wrap! I'm so excited to start studying with him this week!

Lovely! And I loved how Hua Hua was laughing at the end! So fun!