Look for clarity and specificity. Vague language can be a signal to ask more questions.

• Are offerings clearly described?
• Do they outline skill level?
• Are safety and consent practices mentioned?

Search beyond the listing.

• Do they have a website or social media presence?
• How long have they been teaching?
• Do they credit their lineage or training?
• Do they have testimonials or reviews?

You’re allowed to ask about:

• Safety protocols
• Class structure
• Consent practices
• Accessibility
• Refund or cancellation policies

A trustworthy space will welcome thoughtful questions.

How someone communicates before an event often reflects how they hold space.

• Do they respect your boundaries and needs?
• Do they avoid pressure or coercion?
• Do they answer your questions directly?

If it matters to you, it’s worth confirming. Ask about:

• Physical accessibility
• Trauma-informed approaches
• Gender & sexuality inclusivity
• Cultural sensitivity
• Commitments to anti-racism
• COVID & health considerations

Beyond logic — notice your nervous system.

• Does something feel off?
• Do you feel pressured or rushed?
• Do you feel seen and respected?

You don’t need a ‘good enough’ answer to decline. Your comfort is reason enough.