When I first saw photos I thought it was torturing someone. As the women always looked in pain and tortured. So that kept me away from shibari for a good 10 years. Even though in my private life we’d do all kinds of bondage without rope.
It wasn’t until someone tied me with rope, after I dominated someone and reached out to him wanting to learn more, that I experienced it as a healing modality and needed to learn it! I was hooked from the first class!
Even more hooked after my first shibari lesson! That is when it chose me! And I couldn’t not choose it! I had to learn it!
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18 Jan 18:44
MoBights (Community Manager) I feel this deeply! I had no choice from my first experience! So awesome we both listened and allowed! Thanks for sharing!