MoBights (Community Manager)

Manchester, United Kingdom

Shibari Study Community Manager and general rope nerd, food enthusiast and appreciator of art, movies and martial arts

10 Dec 17:06

Welcome to the community Vagevuur really glad to hear that you are enjoying your subscription. What kinds of content gives you the most inspiration? 

09 Dec 21:28

Oh nice, this reminds me a little of some of kitaro katsukabes work in roca magazine, love this vibe

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04 Dec 17:37

always good to practice your skills, even when you are travelling. Love this. hope the work trip went well too 😄

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03 Dec 19:03

Welcome to the community Alex Marschall lovely to have you here. I'm curious what inspires people in rope, especially for those who switch, embodying different persona for different scenes. What is your current inspiration?

so many switches end up being the local top that is for sure. Feels like there needs to be some special category for "switches seeking bottom experiences" on dating sites and at kink events 😂

Adrian that's some amazing insight, as someone who doesn't bottom for rope (I self tie but I don't really think that's comparable) I'm always in awe at that development that bottoms have to become comfortable with discomfort

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Rainbow Masochist so much so, if you haven't heard of the Dunning-Kruger effect definitely something to look at, its a well known science around skill acquisition and how we learn the amount of things we don't know usually outweighs what we do know.

03 Dec 15:45

Hey Ash, welcome to the community, thanks for the kind words about the community spaces. We really value being able to connect with the community this way so I'm glad that comes across. In terms of vertical harnesses, its not uncommon for the lower side of the chest to take the majority of the load. One thing I always think about is that load will mostly be opposite the upline. Your solution to load the legs is a great way of handling this, it will reduce the load on the chest and shift some of this to the less sensitive legs. One other thing to explore is to attach lines to the upper wraps of the harness and tensioning directly to the post, again this will share some of the load away from the bottom wrap of the harness.

01 Dec 10:07

Hey Chris and welcome to the community

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27 Nov 16:03

Hey Rainbow and welcome to the community, Even after years of tying I realise how much more there is left to learn and "expert" is very much a relative term. I sometimes feel like the longer we tie, the more we realise how much we dont know, but that keeps us motivated to explore and be inspired by other peoples rope that we see so you are definitely not alone. Congratulations on achieving your rope goal for the year though, hosting a space for people to enjoy rope is no easy task, especially in a small community, but its great to bring people together to learn and just enjoy nerding out about rope