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Getting to Know You: Top, Bottom, Switch or Self-Tie? How do you identify in rope, are you predominantly a top, a bottom or do you happily switch. Or are you one of those amazingly talent people who does all at once by self tying? Community Agreements:1. Celebrate and embrace the diversity of thought, practice, and opinion. There are many ways to do and practice rope. The Community Discord is a way for us all to engage and interact across differences. While rope connects us all, we are still unique individually.2. Navigate disagreement through discourse. Treat others with respect, even if you disagree. Discord is primarily a text interaction platform, please be mindful that miscommunications can happen.3. Respect each community members’ identities and honor their boundaries/requests about how they wish to be treated. Treat others how they wish to be treated - this includes using their correct pronouns, name, and any other identifying factors that feel important to them. If you make a mistake, take accountability for your actions and try to repair any harm caused. 4. Help create safer spaces for learning and growth through mutual accountability and co-created community accountability. Accountability is mutually co-created. This space is meant to build community and hold each other in that process - sometimes that means making mistakes. Our commitment to accountability begins with a willingness to own and accept that we are all capable of causing harm. Let’s intentionally build a space where making mistakes and making things right is a part of how we operate.5. Bring a growth mindset and be mindful of your learning zones. Check-in with yourself and where your learning zones are. Be mindful when you are in the panic zone and ask for help if you need it. 6. Actively receive in conversation before responding. Receive information down to the last word before taking the time to communicate your thoughts. 7. Make space, take space. Reflect on when you’re able to take up more space in the discord/threads/conversations and reflect on if you need to be creating more space for others. Reflect on if you aren’t participating as much or taking up space, why that might be. Try to find the courage to share your thoughts and take up space, you belong here! 8. Be mindful of the impact of your actions, not just the intentions behind them. Just because we didn’t intend to hurt or harm someone doesn’t change that they are hurt/harmed. 9. NSFW Content. We unfortunately cannot have explicit NSFW content on the community at this time. As an education platform in Shibari we do recognise some content is concerning the practice of shibari but we cannot host explicit material. We do not want to moderate heavily in this space so please be mindful when sharing photographs. 10. This is all challenge by choice. It’s a choice of action to be here and to be participating in this space. Please participate at whatever capacity feels accessible and most authentic for you
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  in  💬 general-chat
November 21, 2025
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As our co-tying performance drops here on SS, I am finding myself reflecting on time with the SS staff and my community. Forever grateful for the opportunity to share my perspective and style and eager to continue merging online resources with in person learning support.

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  in  🪢 bottoming
November 21, 2025
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My first suspension last night (bottom). What a lovely experience.

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 21, 2025

One time, in Curitiba (BR)

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  in  📰 news-and-updates
November 19, 2025

I’ve been so excited for this performance to drop! It’s free for non-members too, so send it to all your friends as inspo for your next group rope scene :)

https://shibaristudy.com/programs/co-tying-performance-free

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 19, 2025
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  in  💬 general-chat
November 17, 2025

A bit of a simple question.

Is there a video here for a standard TK?

There are so many beautiful ones, though I feel there is a base tie that I am just not seeing here 😅

Maybe for MoBights (Community Manager)?

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 15, 2025
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Performing “Knot to the Throat,” a piece combining lyrical singing and shibari, at the ShibariExperienceBr event earlier this year.

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 15, 2025

After care🫶🏻 Hi all I got a good idea to share for some amazing after care! Bamboo + jojoba oil massage after a heavy Shibari scene 🫶🏻 bamboo is smooth as silk and bunnies love it

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 13, 2025

Happening right now: Dancing with Uplines

Burgundy Rose offers their insights for getting creative with gravity and uplines. Come join us!

https://shibaristudy.com/programs/dancing-with-uplines-stream

  in  💬 general-chat
November 13, 2025
• Edited (Nov 13, 2025)
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Been tying a little over two years and love the tutorials on the site. Looking forward to diving deeper and learning some new skills. 

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