MoBights (Community Manager)

Manchester, United Kingdom

Shibari Study Community Manager and general rope nerd, food enthusiast and appreciator of art, movies and martial arts
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hey Pine, welcome to the community and thanks for sharing, glad to hear how you are enjoying both sides of the rope experience

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04 Jan 22:00

Rope Journal - Week 1 
January's Theme is  Reflection & Intention

"What does “connection” mean to you in rope—physical, emotional, or symbolic?"

As part of my Rope Resolutions for this year I wanted to be a bit more reflective about my rope journey, so devised some journal prompts for each week of the year and figured it would be a great way to get to know some of you guys in the community too. This is an idea that I've been discussing with my wife for some time (and I convinced her to write the title page in my notebook as she has much better writing that I do) so with the new year upon us it seemed like a great place to start

If like me you aren't as familiar with Journaling, and this is your first time starting to journal, we have an amazing article from our Director of Education Fuoco on How Journaling Benefits Rope Bottoming

https://shibaristudy.com/blog/post/the-write-stuff-how-journaling-benefits-rope-bottoming 

To be as inclusive as possible I've tried to make these prompts appeal to both tops, bottoms, switches and self tier by being more generic about the experience of rope and allowing you to interpret it within your own lense.

Each week Ill drop a Journal prompt and Id love you to share your thoughts, feelings and interpretations in the comments, or maybe some images you feel encapsulate the weekly topic. Each month also has a common theme which ties (forgive the pun) each prompt together. I will also use the same gif so they are easy to find, if we need to and this proves popular I can create a dedicated channel.

Its also a great excuse for me to use my Shibari Study Notebook (other notebooks are available 😂) as its been sitting on my shelf for a few months and I wasn't sure how best to put it to use, so now I have a reason

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04 Jan 15:22

Hey John, thanks for sharing your experiences, loose lay rope can definitely be a bit more finicky than a medium or tighter lay rope and there's definitely such a thing as too lose. Looks like there might be some strand imbalance in that particular rope. especially if you are retying and strands are different lengths, probably not a rope id be trusting for and load bearing applications

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04 Jan 14:32

Thats very kind of you and we are proud to be a part of your learning journey. Definitely think a lot of us share the imposter syndrome so rest assured you're not alone with that 🙂

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30 Dec 14:43

Hi King& Queen kink Life  and welcome to the community, have you taken a look at the Shibari Study blog (https://shibaristudy.com/blog). We have many articles that discuss different aspects of rope bondage include various articles on safety, consent frameworks, the intersection of kink and politics that you might find interesting on your journey. The community here is primarily focusses specifically on rope but I'm sure you will enjoy the content on the blog too. 

29 Dec 15:26

Beautiful photograph, can see the connection between you

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29 Dec 15:25

Hey John, welcome to the community. Hope you find some good advice and inspiration here

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22 Dec 16:36

love this photo Maxwell a little moment of intimacy. im curious what the story behind the photo is, was this in a rope workshop or a labbing session... Also really curious what is on the pinboard wall behind you both 

Hey Zero, could you add a bit more context to the problem you had with the double bight and I can look to help.... It might be really useful if you post a short video of the problem you had as this will make it much easier to visualise.Generally speaking a double bight is usually achieved by adding a hitch over a loop, commonly called a yuki fix. You can see this demonstrated in the Basic Anchoring video as part of the Uplines and Lock offs collectionhttps://shibaristudy.com/programs/uplines-lock-offs-101-free?cid=535884&permalink=basic-anchoring 

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22 Dec 11:58

Hey Kit and welcome to the community. We do still have a discord alongside the on site community so you are welcome to use both 🙂We launched the on site community to give users the ability to connect directly with each other and the Shibari Study team on the site and app. Plus it also give us the ability to do some other cool stuff like Video Challenges and something super fun that's due to launch in the new year 

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