Annie

Berlin, Germany

Shibari Study blog editor and word person. Bottom with switchy aspirations.

15 Nov 12:54

Welcome!

Posted

13 Nov 13:23

New blog post up, written by none other than @MoBights. If you've ever wondered about the life cycle of your shibari ropes or what kind of damage might weaken your ropes and be cause to retire them, read on!

https://shibaristudy.com/blog/post/when-to-retire-your-shibari-rope

1

13 Nov 12:08

I adore the Fisherman too! Underrated MVP as far as I'm concerned.

This is such a great and honestly immense question. If I look back, even as a kid reading books like Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys (giving my age away here), I was always really interested when the heroes were somehow tied up or trapped. As an adult, I realised I could play with that same state of fear and excitement by actually being in ropes, and that kicked off some early kink explorations. I've always grappled with anxiety, so there's something very intriguing – liberating even – and somehow subversive to me about welcoming the surrender and the struggle of rope. But it took meeting my first properly rope-obsessed person in what was then a very tiny kink community to really start my own obsession, and I haven't looked back since!

I’m also a big fan the self tie Butterfly. Anna teaches it so well and clearly too.

Reply

Welcome Brian! What are your favourite self ties so far?

Congrats on your first week exploring rope bondage! Sounds like you’ve picked up a lot in a really short time – understanding the value of communication is so important and some people get so caught up in the technical stuff that they forget that. You’re starting with a great foundation already.

Reply

31 Oct 18:13

As someone with a love-hate relationship with TKs (from a bottoming perspective anyway), I feel this but also have full faith that the right TK is out there. 😅

Posted

31 Oct 17:44

I feel like the theme of "things I wish I'd known when I started rope" comes up again and again when chatting to other rope bottoms. This article really resonated for me, especially making the mistake of thinking "rigger knows best" when I was too much of a beginner myself to recognise risky tying practices.

I'd love to know what else folks in this channel think new bottoms should know?

Posted

31 Oct 17:14

Quick intro post from me too! I'm Annie (they/she) and I'm the editor of the Shibari Study blog and the person behind most of the words you see on Shibari Study. I'm originally from South Africa, where my interest in shibari really got started thanks to a then tiny DIY rope scene, and I'm now based in Berlin, where my ropey horizons expanded more than I ever imagined they could.

I started working for Shibari Study way back in 2020 when we were still a scrappy team of three. To plagiarise myself pretty directly from my blog bio, my career has taken me from undercover goth agony aunt to lads’ mag sex columnist to ropey copy creature, which makes writing an intro post like this fun and a CV hard. I love rope, writing and snacks, and it's wild that I get to dabble in at least two of those professionally.

Feel free to message me about anything blog related. I'm super excited to connect with folks in this space, and can't wait to get to know you better – and, hopefully, for you to get to know us too!

1