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Getting to Know You: Top, Bottom, Switch or Self-Tie? How do you identify in rope, are you predominantly a top, a bottom or do you happily switch. Or are you one of those amazingly talent people who does all at once by self tying? Community Agreements:1. Celebrate and embrace the diversity of thought, practice, and opinion. There are many ways to do and practice rope. The Community Discord is a way for us all to engage and interact across differences. While rope connects us all, we are still unique individually.2. Navigate disagreement through discourse. Treat others with respect, even if you disagree. Discord is primarily a text interaction platform, please be mindful that miscommunications can happen.3. Respect each community members’ identities and honor their boundaries/requests about how they wish to be treated. Treat others how they wish to be treated - this includes using their correct pronouns, name, and any other identifying factors that feel important to them. If you make a mistake, take accountability for your actions and try to repair any harm caused. 4. Help create safer spaces for learning and growth through mutual accountability and co-created community accountability. Accountability is mutually co-created. This space is meant to build community and hold each other in that process - sometimes that means making mistakes. Our commitment to accountability begins with a willingness to own and accept that we are all capable of causing harm. Let’s intentionally build a space where making mistakes and making things right is a part of how we operate.5. Bring a growth mindset and be mindful of your learning zones. Check-in with yourself and where your learning zones are. Be mindful when you are in the panic zone and ask for help if you need it. 6. Actively receive in conversation before responding. Receive information down to the last word before taking the time to communicate your thoughts. 7. Make space, take space. Reflect on when you’re able to take up more space in the discord/threads/conversations and reflect on if you need to be creating more space for others. Reflect on if you aren’t participating as much or taking up space, why that might be. Try to find the courage to share your thoughts and take up space, you belong here! 8. Be mindful of the impact of your actions, not just the intentions behind them. Just because we didn’t intend to hurt or harm someone doesn’t change that they are hurt/harmed. 9. NSFW Content. We unfortunately cannot have explicit NSFW content on the community at this time. As an education platform in Shibari we do recognise some content is concerning the practice of shibari but we cannot host explicit material. We do not want to moderate heavily in this space so please be mindful when sharing photographs. 10. This is all challenge by choice. It’s a choice of action to be here and to be participating in this space. Please participate at whatever capacity feels accessible and most authentic for you
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  in  💬 general-chat
November 07, 2025

Hi everyone, just wanted to say hi 😊

I was always a bottom, but this year I started to top and I think I'm starting to like it a lot more than I thought I would. 😊

How did you guys get into rope and what does it give you (question is valid for both tops and bottoms)? Would love to hear your answers.

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  in  🪢 bottoming
November 07, 2025

Curious if anyone has bottomed for the Dense Rope material yet? Would love to hear how it goes/what you think. It’s such a different way of being in rope compared to other styles! 

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  in  🪢 bottoming
November 05, 2025

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There’s no one right way to bottom, and no one right reason to be tied! All throughout our catalog you’ll find debriefs between bottoms and their riggers, in which bottoms share valuable insights about how it felt to be in rope. Take a listen and share your thoughts below! What resonates with you? What doesn’t? What are you curious to explore more?

  in  🧶 self-tying
November 05, 2025

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An important component in many suspendable patterns and a versatile tool for improvisation in your floorwork, take a deep dive into the hojo cuff. If you’re a self-tyer, check out the self tied version of this challenge in the #self-tying channel. Bonus points if you share a pic of your creative exploration with the class ;)

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 05, 2025

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November 05 — 08, 2025

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An important component in many suspendable patterns and a versatile tool for improvisation in your floorwork, take a deep dive into the hojo cuff. If you’re a self-tyer, check out the self tied version of this challenge in the #self-tying channel. Bonus points if you share a pic of your creative exploration with the class ;)

  in  📰 news-and-updates
November 05, 2025

First rope oil prototype just came in:) loving the look and feel so far. Will still be a little while before these hit the shop but wanted to share cause we’re excited and it’s really good to see more than a year of work finally result in something ‘touchable’ 🥸☝️

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 03, 2025

Thoughts on this one guys ?

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 03, 2025

Hi everyone! I’m Anoxia, or Nox for short. I’m a they/them human currently living in Chicago, and I’ve been pretty intense about rope since I came across it in 2015. Really excited to be a part of this community space!

A bit about me: I’m a rope switch, and I started out on the tying side of things. While I’ve been tying for a decade, I started bottoming to rope very regularly this last year. I’ve been lucky enough to study with so many brilliant educators from the US, Europe, and Japan. For the last two years, I’ve been making a living teaching rope workshops and private lessons in the US, and working at Shibari Study. On the team, I’m responsible for our partnerships and events— there’s lots of exciting things to come in 2026!

I’m always around for conversations about bodies and anatomy and nerves, and for discussions about running spaces and events. 😊 Lovely to meet you all!

  in  💬 general-chat
November 02, 2025
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Hi Everyone

I am Brian.

I’ve been tying for about 8 months. I mostly self tie or work with a dojo doll as I don’t have a rope partner.

As I self tie and work into self suspension, I’ve found some chest and hip harnesses that work for me. I am struggling with a futo that works with my limited flexibility and doesn’t fall apart (moves too much towards my knee) in suspension.

Thank you for creating this space that is so supportive of us newbies and includes such a diversity of instructors and models.

Here is my attempt at Kinoko’s Maete Harness with added crotch rope to use up excess rope.

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  in  💬 general-chat
November 02, 2025

Hi everyone,

I’m Zero.

I have been doing rope play for a week. Attending my first class tonight, but once a week is not enough for a real foundational base; or a deep rope special interest (I just really like ropes generally).

Right now, I’m still finding aesthetic finishing tricky - as you can see in the picture, I got to the end of this tie and went 🤷🏻 and just bound the feet.

This was my first tie 🎀 yesterday.

From my perspective, it the communication that is the first thing to work on with partner work.

Being able to communicate through “does the tension feel symmetrical?”, “is there anything that is taking you out of the experience?” *lifts up to mock suspension* “ If we were suspending, where would most of the load be put and would this be too uncomfortable for you?”

Even though this was a platonic lab session, the agency for them to express ‘tighter’, I could see was doing something for them.

So, thanks for starting this community.

Hope to share more as it comes.

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