Bottoming
Bottoming as a practice: communication, body awareness, endurance, recovery and the skills a rope bottom builds.

What You Don’t See: Getting Real About Bodies In Rope
11 min readWe all look, feel and move differently in bondage. Five rope bottoms share the unseen “limitations” that shape their practice and how they’ve learned to love their bodies in rope.
CommunityTeddy
Nerve Injuries In Shibari: An Emotional Perspective
10 min readNerve compression injury is one of the most common risks of shibari and, as one experienced rope bottom writes, recovery can be an emotional as well as a physical process.
AdviceVelvetine
Questions to Ask Before Your First Shibari Suspension
11 min readWhen it comes to suspending in rope bondage, equipping yourself and your tying partner for a mutually successful outcome starts long before the first ropes are laid…
AdviceFuoco
Safer Shibari: Understanding The Risks Of Rope Bondage
12 min redIt’s been said that there’s no reward without risk – and there’s certainly no rope bondage without risk. To make the most of your practice as a rope bottom, understand where things could go wrong too.
AdviceVelvetine
Better BDSM: Aftercare For Shibari
10 min readHow you end your rope scene is just as important as how you begin it – here’s why you should include some TLC in your BDSM…
AdviceEna Dahl
Focus On How You Feel: Body Image And Shibari
11 min readShibari can take us into simultaneously vulnerable, empowering and intense spaces, both physically and emotionally. For rope bottoms, reflecting on their bodies in rope is often part of the journey.
CommunityVelvetine
Things I Wish I Had Known As A New Rope Bottom
10 min readTaking up a new hobby for the new year or wanting to make some better-rope resolutions? Rope bottoms share their experiences for safer, enjoyable and more fulfilling rope bottoming.
CommunityVelvetine
One Thing I Wish I Knew When I Started Rope Bondage
10 min readInsights from the Shibari Study Discord community on what they wish they’d known at the beginning of their shibari journeys.
CommunityMo Bights
The Write Stuff: How Journaling Benefits Rope Bottoming
8 min readTie, write, reflect, repeat: here’s how keeping a journal can help rope bottoms cultivate self-knowledge in and out of ropes.
AdviceFuoco
Why Does Shibari Get You ‘High’?
4 min readA quick look at ‘rope space’ and the science behind the psychological peaks (and comedowns) of BDSM.
Culture & KinkEna Dahl