Safety
Nerve compression, tie-specific risk, negotiation and the checks that catch trouble before it starts.
NewWhat Comes After Aftercare?
6 min readWhy what I need now might not be what I’ll need later (and because some experiences really do ask for chocolate).
AdviceLiteraryLilith
NewShibari Self-Tying For Beginners: What You Should Know
10 min readWe tend to think of shibari and rope bondage as an activity for two, yet more and more people are embracing self bondage and tying solo. Here’s why…
AdviceAnnie
How To Vet A Kink Space: A Practical Guide
8 min readSign up or stay clear? Finding a safe(r) and reputable shibari dojo, rope studio or BDSM dungeon starts here with our how-to for assessing if a space is right for you.
AdviceShibari Study Team
Microbondage: A Little Idea For More Creative Shibari
11 min to readLooking for ways to expand your rope practice? Your instinct might tell you to “think bigger”, but what about zooming in? Microbondage may be just the little big idea you’re after…
AdviceAstrid
Why “Good Communication” In BDSM Is Harder Than We Think
7 min readCommunication in kinky scenes is an integral safeguard against misunderstandings and uncertainty, yet intimate experiences are rarely so predictable or neatly contained by negotiation alone.
Culture & KinkLiteraryLilith
To Box Tie Or Not To Box Tie? The Big Debate
14 min readUnfairly maligned icon or fallen-from-grace tie from days gone by? If you’re thinking of giving box ties another chance – or cutting them out of your shibari practice completely – read on…
AdviceFuoco
When To Retire Your Shibari Rope
11 min readA safer and rewarding shibari practice requires getting to know your ropes intimately. Here’s how to recognise when your bondage rope is reaching the end of its life cycle…
AdviceMo Bights
What Is Vetting In Shibari?
8 min readLong before you step into any sort of D/s dynamic or engage in risky types of play, vetting is one of the first steps you can take towards informed, safer and more consensual rope scenes.
Culture & KinkAnnie
Nerve Injuries In Shibari: An Emotional Perspective
10 min readNerve compression injury is one of the most common risks of shibari and, as one experienced rope bottom writes, recovery can be an emotional as well as a physical process.
AdviceVelvetine
Questions to Ask Before Your First Shibari Suspension
11 min readWhen it comes to suspending in rope bondage, equipping yourself and your tying partner for a mutually successful outcome starts long before the first ropes are laid…
AdviceFuoco
Safer Shibari: Understanding The Risks Of Rope Bondage
12 min redIt’s been said that there’s no reward without risk – and there’s certainly no rope bondage without risk. To make the most of your practice as a rope bottom, understand where things could go wrong too.
AdviceVelvetine
Shibari Study Rope Guide Part 4: Choose Your Fiber - Natural Ropes
13 min readA deeper dive into different natural fibers in rope, types of rope and their pros and cons in shibari. By Mo Bights
AdviceMo Bights
Shibari Study Rope Guide Part 5: Choose Your Fiber - Synthetics
9 min readA deeper dive into different man-made or synthetic fibers in rope, types of rope and their pros and cons in shibari. By Mo Bights
AdviceMo Bights
Better BDSM: Aftercare For Shibari
10 min readHow you end your rope scene is just as important as how you begin it – here’s why you should include some TLC in your BDSM…
AdviceEna Dahl
Shibari Study Rope Guide Part 3: Twisted Rope Or Braided Rope?
8 min readJoin us as we take a deeper dive into rope and the pros and cons of different types of rope construction for bondage.
AdviceMo Bights
Why Does Shibari Get You ‘High’?
4 min readA quick look at ‘rope space’ and the science behind the psychological peaks (and comedowns) of BDSM.
Culture & KinkEna Dahl
5 Online Classes Perfect For Rope Bondage Beginners
3 min readLearning shibari for the first time? Knowing where to start can be tricky, so read on for some fundamental stepping stones…
AdviceShibari Study Team
Shibari Community And Rope Jam Etiquette
8 min readCo-owner of Singapore-based rope bondage studio That Rope Place, Rosa Canina shares her tips for making the right impression at your first rope jam.
CommunityRosa Canina
Shibari Study Rope Guide Part 1: The Basics
6 min readPicking the right ropes for your bondage practice starts here. Check out our short-and-sweet intro to some shibari rope fundamentals.
AdviceMo Bights
Shibari Study Rope Guide Part 2: What Is Rope?
6 min readWhen does a rope become a rope and not a string? Understanding how ropes work can help you make better choices when it comes to picking ropes for shibari.
AdviceMo Bights